It's gay week - and I love Ian McKellen!
By Ari | Sep 25, 08 01:05 PM
McKellen promotes gay tolerance:
Actor Sir Ian McKellen is to visit schools, giving talks about gay tolerance. The star, best known to youngsters as Gandalf in the Lord of the Rings trilogy, hopes to end bullying of gay pupils... "I said that we are all part of a minority group - be it for being short, or tall or fat or thin, or having red hair or whatever. I said hands up who thinks they are part of a minority group and all the hands went up. I had Gandalf's sword with me and I knighted a pair of children Sir Minority and Dame Minority and it went down very well... It is essential to talk to 12 and 13-year-olds because they absorb what's thrown at them, whether it be homophobia or tolerance - and we have to make sure it's the positive stuff."
What with Brad Pitt and Steven Spielberg donating money in support of gay marriage, and Lindsay Lohan and Clay Aiken coming out (congrats and thanks to both of them!), and now this, I feel like it's gay week! What a beautiful new world we're making for queer youth.
A while back, a hater dissed me on Flickr for my veganism, and also took issue with me calling myself a "queer vegan" in all of my online bios. I admit at the time I actually felt hurt and a little embarrassed. But then I took a step back and remembered why I describe myself in that way, and felt a little more self-assured. When I was growing up queer people were largely invisible - this was pre-Ellen! Even though I had supportive queer people in my own family, I did grow up with a lot of internalized homophobia and massive gender issues. It's taken me a long time to finally accept who I am and to be honest about it. Becoming vegan too was a huge step for me, a big break with family tradition and a very hard struggle, to acknowledge speciesism in myself and to change my actions to be in line with my ethics and my heart.
So here I am, finally, a queer vegan - and I can't help but wish that as I was growing up, there had been more visible, out and proud queer folks and vegan folks around in the media and in popular culture and in my community. So when I put that right up front it's because I want to be visible, obvious. I don't want anyone to guess or have to ask. I want little queer kids, and little kids who love animals, to immediately know that I'm like them, and that it's okay to be like this. I sure don't have the visibility or profile of Sir Ian McKellen or Lindsay Lohan, but every little bit counts, right?
Anyway, happy gay week.
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happy gay week! :)
Posted by: F.O.R.C.E. | September 26, 2008 01:37 AM